Intimate Relationships: Where Have We Been? Where Are We Going?
Author(s): Tai J. Mendenhall , Elizabeth Jeanne Plowman , Lisa A. Trump , Pamela D. Dysart
Edition: 4
Copyright: 2025
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Intimate Relationships: Where have we been? Where are we going? is an innovative text that focuses on the interpersonal dynamics of couples, and on the dynamics of couples in-context. We explore how intimate relationships evolve and develop – and how they succeed or fail. We talk about a variety of important relationship topics and skills, including early attachment, courtship and dating, marriage, sexuality, gender, power, communication, conflict resolution, relationship problems (e.g., abuse, infidelity, divorce), couples’ enrichment, and couplehood over the life-course. The science of these foci as studied by sociologists, social psychologists, anthropologists, historians, couple and family therapists, and family social scientists is incorporated throughout.
This revised text was written in collaboration with students (undergraduate, graduate) and alumni from the University of Minnesota – all connected through an extraordinary class about some of the most important things in our lives: love, intimacy, healing, and growth.
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Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 1 Intimacy: What Is It? How do We Define it?
Chapter 2 Attachment: Connecting Our Early Experiences in Childhood to Later Functioning as Adults
Chapter 3 Personality and Intimate Relationships
Chapter 4 Gender Socialization and Relationship Formation
Chapter 17 LGBTQ+ Relationships
Chapter 5 Social and Cultural Contexts of Meeting and Dating
Chapter 6 Dances of Intimacy: Patterns of Communication, Boundaries, and Barriers
Chapter 7 Boundaries: Where I End and You Begin
Chapter 18 Disability and Intimate Relationships
Chapter 8 Authenticity in Intimate Relationships
Chapter 9 Intimacy Killers
Chapter 10 Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)
Chapter 11 Intimacy Healers
Chapter 16 Sexual Intimacy
Chapter 12 Long Distance Relationships
Chapter 13 The Influence(s) of Culture on Relationships
Chapter 14 Religion and Spirituality in Intimate Relationships
Chapter 15 The Roles of Ritual in Relationships
Chapter 19 Compassion and Forgiveness
Chapter 20 Relationships Across the Lifespan
Chapter 21 Are Intimate Relationships Good for Your Health?
Chapter 22 Where Have We Been? Where Are We Going? Charting the Course in Our Intimate Journeys
Pamela Dysart is a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota in Family Social Science. Her research interests focus on death, dying, grief, and loss. She has engaged as an AmeriCorps VISTA and Peace Corps Volunteer, worked with middle school students on financial literacy education, and has volunteered in a variety of medical settings (e.g., retirement centers, hospitals, hospice agencies). Pamela earned her MSW from the University of Maryland - Baltimore, she has taught English as a second Language abroad and in the US to youth and adults. She has been working in both clinical and community settings throughout her career. Pamela is the mother of two beautiful souls who are consistently curious about the world, and she enjoys spending time learning and growing with them each and every day.
New Edition Now Available!
Intimate Relationships: Where have we been? Where are we going? is an innovative text that focuses on the interpersonal dynamics of couples, and on the dynamics of couples in-context. We explore how intimate relationships evolve and develop – and how they succeed or fail. We talk about a variety of important relationship topics and skills, including early attachment, courtship and dating, marriage, sexuality, gender, power, communication, conflict resolution, relationship problems (e.g., abuse, infidelity, divorce), couples’ enrichment, and couplehood over the life-course. The science of these foci as studied by sociologists, social psychologists, anthropologists, historians, couple and family therapists, and family social scientists is incorporated throughout.
This revised text was written in collaboration with students (undergraduate, graduate) and alumni from the University of Minnesota – all connected through an extraordinary class about some of the most important things in our lives: love, intimacy, healing, and growth.
Forward
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 1 Intimacy: What Is It? How do We Define it?
Chapter 2 Attachment: Connecting Our Early Experiences in Childhood to Later Functioning as Adults
Chapter 3 Personality and Intimate Relationships
Chapter 4 Gender Socialization and Relationship Formation
Chapter 17 LGBTQ+ Relationships
Chapter 5 Social and Cultural Contexts of Meeting and Dating
Chapter 6 Dances of Intimacy: Patterns of Communication, Boundaries, and Barriers
Chapter 7 Boundaries: Where I End and You Begin
Chapter 18 Disability and Intimate Relationships
Chapter 8 Authenticity in Intimate Relationships
Chapter 9 Intimacy Killers
Chapter 10 Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)
Chapter 11 Intimacy Healers
Chapter 16 Sexual Intimacy
Chapter 12 Long Distance Relationships
Chapter 13 The Influence(s) of Culture on Relationships
Chapter 14 Religion and Spirituality in Intimate Relationships
Chapter 15 The Roles of Ritual in Relationships
Chapter 19 Compassion and Forgiveness
Chapter 20 Relationships Across the Lifespan
Chapter 21 Are Intimate Relationships Good for Your Health?
Chapter 22 Where Have We Been? Where Are We Going? Charting the Course in Our Intimate Journeys
Pamela Dysart is a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota in Family Social Science. Her research interests focus on death, dying, grief, and loss. She has engaged as an AmeriCorps VISTA and Peace Corps Volunteer, worked with middle school students on financial literacy education, and has volunteered in a variety of medical settings (e.g., retirement centers, hospitals, hospice agencies). Pamela earned her MSW from the University of Maryland - Baltimore, she has taught English as a second Language abroad and in the US to youth and adults. She has been working in both clinical and community settings throughout her career. Pamela is the mother of two beautiful souls who are consistently curious about the world, and she enjoys spending time learning and growing with them each and every day.